Jay Cutler and Kristin Cavallari’s nine-year-long marriage officially ended in 2022. After taking two years for their divorce settlements, the former couple currently shares the custody of their three children – Camden (12), Jaxon (10), and Saylor (9).
Cavallari recently addressed her situation during a conversation with the Interview magazine. The ex-Paradise Hotel host described “co-parenting” as,
“The ultimate test in life.”
A few months back, the Very Cavallari star and executive producer appeared on Bunnie Xo’s Dumb Blonde podcast. During her chat with the host, she called her co-parenting situation “up and down.” She further added,
“[It’s] really hard. It has not been easy, to say the least.”
She also described her relationship with Cutler as a “bumpy road” after their divorce.
Kristin Cavallari previously criticized her ex-husband by calling him a "pathological liar”

On the Dumb Blonde podcast, former Dancing with the Stars contestant delved into the details of her relationship with the ex-Chicago Bears pro. During the conversation, Cavallari called her a "pathological liar.” She further remarked on her relationship with Cutler, proclaiming that he brought “zero f***ing consistency” to the table.
Kristin also said,
“There are things from my marriage that I will never know, and I’ve just sort of had to let that go. I’m over it now.”
Amidst all the issues she talked about, Kristin Cavallari also mentioned the “best thing” that happened earlier in 2024,
“We sat together at a basketball game earlier in the year, and I was like, ‘Holy f***, this is the best thing that’s ever happened. Jesus Christ, we made it. We can sit next to each other… And we haven’t sat together since, so I don’t f***ing know. What the f***?”
More about Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler’s relationship
The Hills star and former NFL pro first linked up in 2009 when the latter asked the former out through her publicist. During A Drink With interview in 2013, Cavallari revealed that she was initially not interested. She told the outlet,
“I didn't know who he was! I had to Google him. I was in the middle of filming The Hills so I was like, 'I don't want a boyfriend in Chicago,' and passed on it.”
The former lovers met for the first time in 2010 at a pre-season game. Cavallari revealed on the Dumb Blonde podcast that her cousin, a Bears fan, pursued her. Following her first meeting with Jay Cutler, the couple started dating sooner.
They got engaged in April 2011 but broke up months later. After reconciling later that year, Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler engaged again. The actress even wrote about the update on X (formerly Twitter),
“This time its official..Jay and I are engaged again :)”
The pair welcomed their first kid, Camden, in 2012 and married a year later in Nashville. Their second son, Jaxon, was born in 2014, while their daughter, Saylor, was born in 2015. After seven years of marriage, Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler announced their split and filed for a divorce in 2020 (finalized in 2022).